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如果没有网络，我们的生活将会何等失色。我们通过网络联系朋友、观看影视作品、查找功课资料、获得最新资讯……然而，你是否想过，网络除了给我们提供无限便利以外，还会让人深陷麻烦？以下是三个青少年的真实故事，告诫我们要慎用网络这个工具。

Broken Friendship

I used to have a best friend named Katie. We shared everything, even our passwords. One day I got online and noticed a bunch of emails from someone whose name I didn’t recognize. The

subject was: “You look hot.” I opened one up and read what it said. It was from a guy at school who was two grades older than me. He said he wanted to do stuff that I’m embarrassed to even say. These girls at school the beautiful people, as I call them

they convinced Katie to give them my password. She thought that, if she gave it to them, it would make them like her. I think she was scared too. These girls do mean[卑鄙的] things to everyone.

Anyway, the girls got into my email and sent emails to all the senior guys that looked like they were from me. In the email was a picture of me with no clothes on. They got a picture of someone else from anwebsite and “Photoshopped注1” my class picture head shot on it, I guess. Then they wrote things like, “I will do anything to make your fantasies come true” and signed my name. Since it came from my account, everyone thought I really sent it. Now I can’t go anywhere at school without guys looking at me funny, and people whispering and pointing at me when they think I can’t see. I don’t have any friends and I don’t even talk to Katie anymore. I feel so alone. I wish I could move somewhere and start over.

I thought it was safe to share my password with my best friend. Now I know you can’t. I wish I could disappear.

You Can’t Take It Back

I heard about a lot of things my friends were doing online that were really mean or just plain crazy. I never thought I would do anything like that.

One day my friend, Pat, showed me a website he made. He posted a list of girls in our school and had guys we know go on and rate them; sort of a “Hot or Not” kind of website. I thought it was pretty funny so I rated them too. We had a good laugh and I thought that was the end of it. The next day, everyone at school was talking about it. He had sent it out to the whole school to see. I could tell a couple of girls had been crying, and I knew it was because of what the guys had said about them and how they looked. I felt bad, but I didn’t really get it until I went home that night. It turns out the guys had put my little sister on the site too, but hid it from me because they knew I would get upset. She was crying when I got home, and she wouldn’t even look at me. I would never have said those things to someone’s face. I didn’t even mean them. I thought it was just a joke between friends. Now Pat’s suspended[中断一段时间] from school, and they might kick me out too.

Once you put something online, you lose control of it. You can never get it back. People can use it in ways you never even meant. I learned that the hard way. I wish I never saw that stupid site.

Julie’s Journey

The Internet, it’s a tool that has to be used properly. You know, it’s like a knife. I mean, it’s…it’s very helpful, but it can also cut you.

My name is Julie. When I was 13, I started talking to Tom. He didn’t act or even sound like a 56-year-old man. So he was different on the computer. I knew that I wasn’t supposed

to be talking to him, but I did it out of a retaliation[报复] against my parents. It felt nice to have somebody who wasn’t always trying to tell you what to do. It started to get more like a relationship, where it went from just friends to best friends, more personal relationship than best friends. I would Instant Message注2 him between three and six hours a day. I was really upset whenever I couldn’t get on the Internet because I knew that he would be like, “What were you doing?” and he emailed me, like, ten times wondering where I was at. Then you feel like, extremely bad about it. It was…an opportunity for him to manipulate[操控] more. I trusted him more than anybody else.

He mentioned, “Wouldn’t it be nice if we were together all the time?”, and then the thought came up of running away. The night I left, I kissed all my brothers good night, and he was in his truck and we just rode out and ran away for three weeks. The day that I was found we were on our way to Reno. Somebody reported us and saw our truck. I knew pretty much it’s over, and I never really thought the day would come. He’s gonna be in jail for 25 years. He sent a letter to me, saying that it was my fault and that he was going to kill me if he ever got out of jail. I was really upset because he didn’t say anything about caring about me. I didn’t think of his background and I didn’t apply it to myself, and so, maybe, he could have done anything to me, even killed me. And so, you know, now that I’m back, I feel like there’s this huge emptiness inside of me.

If I could have talked to people, maybe I would have had a different view on some things.

If you’re planning to run away, it doesn’t help solve anything. If it does anything, it makes it worse. Little things can end up becoming a big thing. I kind of wish that I never would have run away in the first place. I would never do it again.

友谊的破裂

以前我有一个名叫凯蒂的好朋友。我们共用一切东西，甚至包括我们的密码。有一天上网时，我收到了一大堆电子邮件，都是某个我不认识的人发来的，标题写着：“你看起来真辣”。我打开其中一封电邮，看看里面说的是什么。原来发件人是学校里的一个男生，比我高两级。他说他想做一些我尴尬得说不出口的事情。学校里的那几个女生――那些漂亮角儿，我这样叫她们――说服凯蒂把我的密码告诉她们。她以为如果她把密码告诉她们，她们就会喜欢她。我想凯蒂也很害怕。那些女孩总是见谁都欺负。总之，她们进入我的电子邮箱，用我的账号给所有高年级男生发电邮，就好像是我发的那样。电邮里有一张我的图片。我猜她们是从一个上弄到一张别人的照片，然后把我的班级照片头像“PS”到这张图片上。然后她们写上这样的话：“我会做任何事情，让你美梦成真。”然后附上我的名字。由于邮件用我的账号发送，每个人都以为真的是我发的。现在我在学校里无论走到哪儿，都有男生用莫名其妙的眼神盯着我，人们背着我窃窃私语、指指点点，以为我没看见。我没有朋友，也不再和凯蒂说话。我感到如此孤单，真希望能搬到别的地方，重新开始。

以前，我以为和自己最好的朋友分享密码是安全的。现在我知道不能这样做。我真希望能从这世上消失。

莫让无心铸成错

我听说过朋友在网上做了很多非常恶毒或者说简直疯狂的事情。我从未想过自己也会做那样的事。

有一天，我的朋友帕特给我看他做的一个网站。他在网站上贴出一批我们学校女生的信息，让我们认识的男生上网给她们打分，也就是类似“性不性感”之类的网站。我觉得很好玩，也给她们打了分。捧腹大笑一番以后，我以为事情就此告一段落。谁知道第二天，学校里的每个人都在谈论这件事情。帕特把网站发给学校里的每个人看。我看得出好些女生都哭了，我知道那是因为男生们对她们的评论以及她们在男生眼里的形象。我感觉很糟，但是直到回到家，我才体味到真正糟糕的感觉。原来那些男生把我的小妹妹也贴到那个网站上了，他们没有让我看到，因为他们知道我一定会不高兴。我回到家时，妹妹正在哭，看也不看我一眼。我绝对不会当着别人的面说出那些话，我根本不是那个意思。我只当这是朋友之间的一个玩笑而已。现在帕特被勒令停学，或许我也会被踢出学校。

一旦你把东西到网上，事情就会超出你的控制，你永远也不能把它们收回。人们可以用你意想不到的方式去使用那些东西。我付出了巨大的代价才学到了这个教训。真希望我从来没有看过那个愚蠢的网站。

朱莉的网恋

互联网是一种必须谨慎使用的工具。你知道，它就像一把刀。我的意思是，它……它很有用，但也可以伤害你。

我叫朱莉。13岁的时候，我开始和汤姆聊天。他的行为和说话方式一点也不像一个56岁的人，因此他在网上很不一样。我知道自己不应该跟他聊天，但出于一种对父母的报复心理，我还是明知故犯。身边有一个不会每时每刻都指点你做这做那的人，感觉实在太好了。我们之间的关系开始变得有点暧昧，从普通朋友到好朋友，再到比好朋友更私密的一种交往。一天当中，我会通过即时信息与他聊上三到六个小时。不能上网的时候，我便会感到烦躁不安，因为我知道他会问：“你那时在做什么？”他还会不下十次地给我发电邮，问我在哪里。于是你便会感觉极其糟糕。这是……一个让他可以进一步操纵我的机会。我信任他远胜任何人。

他曾经说过：“要是我们能一直在一起，那不是很好吗？”于是，私奔的想法油然而生。出走的那天晚上，我亲吻了所有的弟弟，向他们道晚安。而他就在卡车里等着我，然后我们一起驾车离开了三个星期。后来有一天，在我们前往里诺的途中，我被发现了。有人看到我们的卡车，并举报了我们。我很清楚一切都结束了，我真的从未想过这一天会来临。他要坐25年的监狱。他给我写了一封信，说那都是我的错，如果他还有走出监狱的一天，他就会杀了我。我很失望，因为他一句也没有提到对我的关爱。我从来没有考虑过他的背景，也没有设身处地地把自己考虑进去，或许他真的会对我做出什么事情，甚至杀了我。所以，现在我回来了，心里有一种莫大的空虚。

如果当初我能和别人谈谈，或许我会对一些事情有不一样的看法。

假如你打算离家出走，要知道这并不能解决任何问题。如果要说它真的起到什么作用的话，那就是使事情变得更糟。小问题会逐渐积累，最后变成大问题。我但愿打一开始就没有选择离家出走。我不会重蹈覆辙了。

注1：Photoshop是编辑电脑图片的常用软件，由美国Adobe公司出品。Photoshop本为名词，此处作动词用。

注2：Instant Message（IM，即时消息）在此处作动词用。现今流行的QQ、MSN、Skype等都属于即时通讯工具范畴。

Know More:网络安全小提示

 上网时最好不要把个人信息告诉网友。个人信息包括你的用户名、电子邮箱、手机号码，以及自己或亲友的照片。

 如果你在网上自己的照片或视频――任何人都可能对它们进行修改。

 不要相信垃圾邮件的内容。

 陌生人发来的邮件或文件最好不要打开。你不知道里面包含什么――里面或许有病毒，更糟的是一些不雅图片和

影片。

 人们上网的时候很容易说出一些现实生活中不会说的话。

 一些人在网络上经常说谎。

 不要随便和陌生人聊天。

 如果有人让你感到不自在，一定要告诉你相信的人。